Sunday, October 31, 2010
Tonight, I kind of wish I could pull up a stool and get a little Psychiatric Help from my buddy Lucy. You know the phrase too much is never enough? Well, sometimes too much is just that. TOO much!
I know I haven't been my normal blogging self, but with two Halloween parties, the regular cleaning groceries laundry, mowing the leaves, one well timed mental breakdown with my ever supportive hubby standing by, carving pumpkins, having mom and dad up for dinner, and trick-or-treating...somehow I just didn't find the time. Go figure. It has been a long, fun, but exhausting weekend. Fall has just been coming at us at a breakneck pace, and I don't see it slowing up any time soon, so I guess it is time to buckle up and hold on for the Holiday Wild Ride!
Thursday, October 28, 2010
So many life lessons are in a Charlie Brown cartoon...
"Never jump in a pile of leaves with a wet sucker"
Never get between a woman and chocolate...a paraphrase if you will of "the fury of a woman who's been cheated out of tricks-or-treats."
and of course, the three things you don't discuss with people..."religion, politics and the Great Pumpkin!"
Thanks Charles Schultz! May my blog, like Linus' pumpkin patch, always be the most sincere.
Just one little request, though. If you could somehow get ABC to air the Dolly Madison fruit pie advertisements during Peanuts specials, that would be great. Those were very much part of the whole experience back in the 70's...and I always wanted 'em! Of course, mom never bought them. Right up there with my lack of pets, character bedsheets, and Underoos. Yep, the things from childhood I am bitter about...but that's another blog.
Wednesday, October 27, 2010
Becky,
This is a personal letter to you.
Please don't yell at me at lunch tomorrow.
I'm all outta blog tonight.
Sorry,
Cheryl
PS Last line there made me think of an Air Supply song, though, and if I know you, I know you're singing along. Not because you are like Air Supply's number one fan or anything, but because you, like me, are a wonderful rememberer of random songs of the 70's! Sing it sister!
PPS Maybe I will blog about that random song lyric thing tomorrow. I actually call the phenomenon "The Debbie Gibson Factor," since I can remember all the words to "Electric Youth" for goodness sake, but many days, can't remember where I put my keys.
PPPS Hmmm, funny, but I kinda got a blog out of this rambling, eh?
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Monday, October 25, 2010
Just another Manic Monday.
Several of my Facebook friends, people that don't know each other in the least, have put up this actual post today! Isn't that funny? Monday energy is universal, or universally lacking, I suppose. You know, I looked back at my blog today, like I continually encourage my students to look back at their Writer's Notebooks. My objective in the classroom is for them to examine topics for expanded writing in class, but my objective was to look back on my Mondays and see if they are always blah. Well I'll tell ya what...in the summer, not so much, but in the school year, yes. The tone of the entries is not negative so much as VOID. I think my energy level is just so low on a Monday, that if I get through school, and then get home to do the "regular stuff," that is about all I have. Today was a "new" day at school too, as my student teacher started. This is a great thing, overall, and I know she will be wonderful as she already worked with me last semester as a practicum student, but it just felt like a "second first day of school," in a way. Karen B. brought in cheesecake for me this morning, and that was super duper wonderful. I have to say it gave me hope for the day, but it certainly does seem that morning cheesecake ended up being the highpoint. So, Monday, farewell for now. I attacked you, I prevailed, and now I am done...at least until next week. Is it too early for a Monday countdown?
Sunday, October 24, 2010
I kind of had a plan in the back of my mind going into this Sunday. I could just feel that I was on a grumpies trajectory so I tried to head it off with the mantra that I see every day, multiple times, that hangs over my old TV/old disgusting entertainment center "Faith Family Friends." It would be tough to argue against it as it is a pretty good saying, one that certainly resonates. Still, at times, the balance gets thrown off. Today ended up being a pretty good day, and I had a bit of all three.
We started with Faith...Sunday school for the kids and then church for us all. The sermon even prompted some discussion between Tim and myself, about quiet, and what centers us. Church, to some extent is something that centers me, if I were to be truthful...the quiet, the routine, the ceremony, the familar. In fact, by the end of the service today, I was blissfully drifting off to process in my head, but it was so much so that I sang the wrong last verse for our ending hymn! Oops. And, I have to admit, I do sing loudly.
Next,it was time for Friends, and a little get together at Carri's. She was helping out a friend who is just getting started with a company called NYR Organics, and we sat around her table trying out lotions and potions, eating yummy food, drinking some wine and talking girl talk. Gwynn went along and played with Erin. It just felt good.
And last came Family. I came home, to Tim having picked up the family groceries, and made a yummy yummy dinner myself...French onion soup. Now it wasn't the biggest hit with the kids, but they tried it, and made do with the sliced veggies and grilled cheese accompaniments. As much as some pull their hair out over dinner, I am always so happy to cook for my family, and that is why. They will try. They are open. They appreciate. I don't like to sit around and brag on them, because that can be obnoxious to say the least, but as far as food preparation, consumption and appreciation goes, they really do, totally, ROCK!
And so, today, the Sunday grumpies were completely averted, not without effort, but easily nonetheless. A little of each, Faith, Family and Friends, and it does seem that I am just Fine.
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Saturday Randomness...
- Again, if I could just sleep until my BODY wants to get up everyday, I would feel SO much better.
- Devin and Tim went out hunting today...first time for Devin with his gun/post hunter's safety class. They actually canoed up Sterling Creek at 0 dark 30. That will always be a mystery to me...why that is appealing...see above note I suppose. Devin got a goose, partially on his own. He also learned how to clean it. Yucky to me, overall, but he was so pumped. Male bonding...gotta love it.
- Spent part of the day taking our "important documents" and organizing them in a fireproof box. Kinda sad that we had them stored haphazzardly for 17 years of marriage, but that's just us. It was a riot cleaning out this one box, which I knew had Tim's Social Security card in it. It also had a variety of old college ID's and liscences of both of us. Then there were some random notes, and clipped Cathy comics, and photos as well. It just was a funny trip through our shared history.
- Another thing we came across was our GRE scores. We both took them on a whim, with no preparation as we were PRETTY sure we'd do our grad work at our undergrad alma mater and we did not need GRE scores to do that. As we compared, we realized that, percentile wise, we scored within 10% of each other, overall. My verbal was higher, Tim's quantitative was higher, and we were almost identical in analytical. This has to mean something...
- Meatloaf is yummy...and to remember Meatloaf playing at Oswego State Springfest '90...and my broken wing. Well, let's just say that was a good laugh you gave me Jay. Thank you. Laughter. Memories. Fun times past, present and future. That's what it's all about.
Friday, October 22, 2010
It's Coconut Friday, and that means it is time for a change! Every now and again we need one, don't we? A new blog layout is just what the Dr ordered.
Speaking of newness, this week I examined life through new clothes...and yeah, they pretty much got me through the week. Today, it was just back to putting together an outfit from the regular players in the closet, but I threw on a funky necklace and that made things pretty OK.
As my students came in, we had our morning exchanges, and a few mentioned that they liked my necklace, but one stopped and seemed to really take it in. Then she professed, "Wow, Mrs. Howell, your necklace is so random today!" Made me laugh and made my day! From the "Ugly Necklace" to the "Random Necklace," we never know what life may bring our way, but our clothes, our shoes, our jewelry are there with us the whole time. What we wear is how we show who we are to the world. It's our first impression. So wear what makes you tick. Get out the fun shoes, wear the bright colors, go against what is in style, get out the flashy jewelry.
Be Random, my friends...life is, after all, and if you can't beat it, join it.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Kinda sad, I know, but I have NOT been reading lately.
The beginning of school always does this to me. Summer is full of time and good books, then September hits full force and I fall into bad "no time/no energy" habits, becoming a magazine slut. As October rolls in, I realize that I need some reading rehab, and each year help arrives, always in a different way. Someone gives me a book urging that I "have" to read it. Book group picks something that really sucks me in, or I get engrossed in a new book of my own discovery. Well, Mary Keefe gave me a book to read yesterday and then, as it ended up, to re-boot the reader in me, I friended Kelly Corrigan.
Yeah, big time memoirist of The Middle Place, and Lift is now MY friend! I have John Mayer too. Idina Menzel. Jason Mraz. That is something I just LOVE about Facebook, the messages that read...Cheryl Southard Howell is now friends with X celebrity.
Now, really, I got on Facebook wanting to friend Patricia MacLachlan as it was her book, the wonderful little children's novella Word By Word By Word, that jumped my reading battery. It was the story of the impact a visiting author has on five kids and their writing lives. I read it last night in one sitting...laughing out loud and crying at the beauty of it. After reading I got on the computer to order it on amazon, and Kelly Corrigan popped up. In that moment I perused her website as well, and then found her on FB, and finally, I am back to reading. I re-readLift last night...another shortie...and I am re-reading The Middle Place tonight.
In the book Lift, speaking of the amazingly temporary stage that IS raising our children, she says this...
"(I wrote this book because) you won't remember how it started with us, the things I know about you that you don't even know about yourselves. We won't come back here. I don't know when you'll read this. Maybe when you're a teenager? No, probably later, when you're on the verge of parenthood and it occurs to you for the first time that someone has been loving you for that long. Maybe (let's hope not) you'll read it because something happened to (me). No matter when or why this comes into your hands, I want to put down on paper how things started with us."
That quote explains, in part, why I write, constantly, to document, and in turn, to remember, for me, for others, for my family. It is, in part, why I keep this blog. It is a window into me. For me. For whomever. But probably, most importantly, for my kids. And it is a window into our lives, now, as a family. It is a window of my, and their, and our year on Earth.
If you are looking for something good to read, check her out...MY friend, Kelly Corrigan.
Wednesday, October 20, 2010
I wore my fun Lia Sophia "Appletini" ring today. It is a little big on my finger, so it flips around and around all day long. It is funny when little things that happen in your day to day life bring back memories of childhood. My ring did just that today.
When I was little I used to insist on wearing my rings facing IN on my hand. I had one particular, fake as the day is long, blue topaz ring...just a simple round bezel mounted stone in a brassy adjustable band...that was my absolute favorite. I wore that ring all the time, and I always wore it facing in, and for a very specific reason. My understanding of jewelry was that it was for pleasure and enjoyment, so I wanted to enjoy that ring for myself, not give it away to everyone else. I wore it for ME. I'd like to say I still follow the same principal in my adult life. While I have learned that rings really should face out, I don't wear jewelry for others, I wear it for me. Same for my clothes. I like nice clothes, but why do I dress up and dress nicely? Why do I have a shopping obsession, jewelry habit and recent shoe kick? I have all of those things because they bring me joy.
Kind of speaks to my mantra of yesterday..."Do something for YOURSELF today." I suppose, inadvertently, my ring was helping me out with that!
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Decided to borrow a little humor to get the old blog started tonight. Not that I "tweet" or anything, but I still felt it was close to home. Tonight's blog is lame, just letting you know up front. Boy, I guess I was better off last night, when, at least, I could blame a lame blog entry on not getting on the computer. Tonight, amidst dinner, clean up, laundry, and shuttling kids, I have had plenty of moments to blog, but there's just nothing to say. Of course, part of that could be because it has been such a running kind of day, at work and at home. Who has time to think off when you are uber busy dealing with everyone else's needs? Sigh. Not a bad day, not a good day, just a day. Need to keep that in mind to take some time for ME tomorrow. Just ME.
Monday, October 18, 2010
You know, this sharing of a computer with 4 individuals thing is getting old.
Tonight, I was denied access until 9 pm! I had plenty of thoughts to blog too, but at this point, hello, I am FRIED! I will share the best point of my computer free evening, though, which I probably could have turned into something witty and fun on here but WHATEVER.
After all of my YouTubing of "Breakfast Club" with Gwynn the other day, I found "Sixteen Candles" on TV, serendipitously. I mean, I own the damn movie on DVD, but to find it by chance is always more fun. Good thing I did happen across it, too, as I sure wasn't going to be getting on the computer. Oh well. "The Donger" is always good company.
Sunday, October 17, 2010
Dear Cute Guy at Price Chopper this Late Sunday Afternoon,
My Sunday Gratitude goes to you. As embarrassing as it may be, you made my Sunday "chore" of grocery shopping for my family so much more interesting.
Now, I am not one to hate on grocery shopping. Long ago, I surrendered to cooking, knowing that feeding my family is my responsibility, and that 3 meals a day 365 days a year may as well be fun. Each week, I go out with a list in hand that has at least a few obscure items...fresh basil or sage, garam masala, frozen okra. I hunt them down happily, usually with a smile on my face, and singing or whistling along to the muzak, specially marketed to my liking as I am in their shoppers demographic for sure.
Today, though, you caught my eye, and I yours.
It was about halfway through the store. You had on a black tee shirt, and some nice boots. Yeah. I noticed. I had on my cute grey scoopneck sweater/funky hardware style necklace combo that I wore late yesterday to Syracuse for an evening out with the family. It looked good then, and looked even better on a Sunday at the Chopper in Oswego, when most people were in sweats.
A couple of aisles later I passed by you again, and this time I know we caught eachothers eye.
Then came dairy. My flirting was blatent at this point so I threw some good beer in the cart as well. Guilt beer...guy flowers...whatever you want to call it in it went.
As I checked out, I shamelessly looked for you, but you were no where to be seen. I paid for my food and started to roll my cart to the exit. That's when I saw you again, in an express lane. Seriously? All that time I was there you only got 13 items - or LESS? Hmmmm...maybe you really were checking me out. A 39 year old girl can dream after all. I glanced in your direction and you smiled. Yeah, that was all the confirmation I needed.
Granted, I almost backed my van into the row of cars behind me as I rubbernecked for you in the parking lot, but hey, it made for a fun afternoon for sure!
Thanks again,
Cheryl
Saturday, October 16, 2010
Started out as a blah day, but with sun, so I knew there was hope. And I got to sleep in which was glorious. Then Tim got some outdoor crap done and I got some indoor crap done so we decided to get out for a while and do a family shopping day. It is funny how, when you go out looking for something specific, you often times have no luck, but when you are not really looking...well, let's just say I did well today. 2 pairs of shoes and a great dress.
The shoes are cracking me up, though. One pair is pretty much a pair of flats with a small heel, but when I got home I realized the heel part is wicked slippery. I will be able to "rough them up" I am sure and all will be fine. Conversely, the other pair is a pair of those cute tie up oxfords that are so popular right now. The heels are 3 inches! I don't know what I am thinking as I am going to be towering over my class, but I'll tell ya, these shoes feel like I could run a marathon in them! LIKE I would ever run a marathon, but you know what I mean.
Walking miles successfully in 3 inch heels only to kill yourself leaving the house in flats. Now that's ironic, Alanis, dontcha think?
Friday, October 15, 2010
And so the trend of Coconut Friday continues with a great girl's night out with Sue. It is a riot that in this year that we both teach in the same hallway, we still, as of October 15th, have hardly had 5 consecutive minutes to talk at work. Things continue to be unsettled and crazy there, and each day brings new drama, so to get to Friday is certainly worth a celebration. We went to Red Sun Fire Roasting Co. in Oswego at 5:30 (Cheryl time) and didn't leave until 8, or later?! It was so great, to sit and talk and eat and drink. A great start to the weekend for sure!
Thursday, October 14, 2010
It feels like there are just not enough hours in the day these days.
In the eternal words of Culture Club, time won't give me time.
Ahhh, the theme of 80's music, begun with my beloved Duran Duran...let us now ponder Culture Club.
Don't put your head on my shoulder
Sink me in a river of tears
This could be the best place yet
But you must overcome your fears
Ooh, in time
It could have been so much more
The time is precious I know
In time
It could have been so much more
The time has nothing to show
Because
Time won't give me time
And time makes lovers feel
Like they've got something real
But you and me
We know we've got
Nothin' but time
And time won't give me time
Won't give me time
(Time, time, time)
Don't make me feel any colder
Time is like a clock in my heart
Touch we, touch was the
heart too much
I felt I
Lost you from the start
Sigh. Lyrics were so much better in the 80's.
SO tired
SO wanting to stay up and watch Grey's Anatomy
SO thinking I am going to end up asleep on the couch.
SO wish I had it in me to be witty and write something good
SO much for good intentions
SO it is off to the land of the Cymbalta blanket, knowing, at least, that if I do nod off, the DVR has me covered as well
Weekend, I am SO ready for you!
Wednesday, October 13, 2010
Ahhhhh...dinner synergy. Tonight's dinner was WAY too good for a "Pseudo Tuesday Actually Wednesday" night. First of all, how much do I LOVE Wegman's? We stopped through in Auburn on the way home from Lansing, and so, I already knew I was making thick cut pork chops, and fingerling potatos, and "Pre cut by some wonderful Wegman's employee, preferably a boy named Coco", butternut squash. But if that wasn't good enough, I found an unopened, lost jar of Stonewall Kitchen Carmel Apple Butter in the cupboard and made a pan sauce using that, wine, pork drippings, garlic and just too many tablespoons of butter. YUM YUM YUM is all I can say. Gwynn even made pumpkin bread this past weekend, so we had a seasonal dessert to boot! Add a husband who made me my coffee this morning and brought me some wine tonight and you have the makings of a pretty great day!
(You all may be missing Devin in the above familial bliss narrative, but the poor kid had his braces adjusted for the first time today...I am willing to cut him some slack for that:)
Happy Wednesday - heading straight for the Thursday Slide!
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
So I am wondering, IS there in fact something I should know? I was driving up to get Gwynn from dance, and in a fairly blah mood, when this came on the radio! What I want to know is why does this particular song keep coming up? Were it not for this blog I might not be able to pinpoint, but, because of it, I know that it last surfaced in an episode of "Wizards of Waverly Place," on March 23rd, in the form of a spell. Tonight, it was merely the song on the radio, but come on, how often do you hear Duran Duran BY CHANCE anymore? And what ARE these lyrics trying to tell me? Should we strive to get the kids out to the Rockies this year? Then again, the wording is clearly "try to find my mountain hideaway." That, really, translates more to a chateau in the Alps, just me and my honey.
Maybe next year, maybe no go...
"Is There Something I Should Know?"
Please please tell me now, please please tell me now
Please please tell me now, please please tell me now
I made a break I run out yesterday tried to find my mountain hideaway
Maybe next year maybe no go
I know you're watching me every minute of the day yeah
I've seen the signs and the looks and the pictures that give your game away yeah
There's a dream that strings the road a broken glass for us to hold
And I cut so far before I had to say
Please please tell me now is there something I should know
Is there something I should say that'll make you come my way
Do you feel the same cause you don't let it show
Oh oh, oh, oh people stare and cross the road from me
oh oh, And jungle drums they all clear the way for me
Can you read my mind can you see in the snow
And firey deamons all dance when you walk through that door
Don't say you're easy on me you're about as easy as a nuclear war There's a dream that strings the road with broken glass for us to hold
And I cut so far before I had to say
Please please tell me now is there something I should know
Is there something I should say that'll make you come my way
Do you feel the same cause you don't let it show
Please please tell me now is there (please please tell me now)something I should know
Is there (please please tell me now) something I should say
That'll (please please tell me now) make you come my way
Please please tell me now can you see (please please tell me now) what makes me blow
Can you (please please tell me now) see how much I'd die
Everytime (please please tell me now) it passes by
Please please tell me now what it (please please tell me now) takes to make it show
Is there (please please tell me now) something I should know
Is there (please please tell me now) something I should know
Monday, October 11, 2010
I'm back home, and back to blogging, following a three day weekend in Lansing. Tim and I managed a date night, Mom and Gwynn and I visited some artists, and did some shopping. We had family time, and even a baby shower for Terry, Quinn and new baby Asa. It was a wonderful weekend for sure. I was so happy, and felt so thankful, and so blessed. Still, that feeling seems not to be carrying over. It is Monday, but I have the Sunday Grumpies for sure. I guess as much as I celebrated Pseudo Friday on Thursday last, I have to acknowledge and face Pseudo Sunday today. One positive, the weekend is only 4 days away. Yep, that's gonna be the thing that gets me through.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
I have decided to have Coconut Friday early, since tomorrow is a Superintendent's Day, thus making today "Pseudo Friday."
We actually just got back from a wonderful dinner out with my mom and dad at the Old Erie Restaurant in Weedsport. They have a German Oktoberfest menu each October, and if you live anywhere near by you really ought to check it out. Well, we dined with my parents, and after dinner, they TOOK THE KIDS AWAY and drove 'em off to Lansing! WooHoo! Party time at the Howell's! Truly, though, it is not that big a deal, I mean tomorrow is still work, but you know what? It is SUPER quiet here right now, and that is quite a treat.
We'll meet them back down in Lansing tomorrow night - might even eek a date night out of it first - and then it is family festivity all weekend with Terry, Quinn and Asa's baby shower, but the quiet is still very much appreciated tonight.
We had a nice drive down to Weedsport too, actually, with the iPod playing and the sun low over the corn fields. We had to stop for gas, so we did so at the corner station in Cato. It has been updated a bit, but back when we used to drive through there a ton, when we attended college and then lived in Oswego and Rt 34 was the way to go if we were to visit family, we made SUCH fun of the place! It used to have this sign that said "Cato Major Brand Gas!" It just was so funny to us, like generic gas...so dollar store, and NOT a name you know. Well, stopping today, for the first time ever, I found out they are a FULL SERVICE STATION and this nice boy came out and pumped my gas for me! I love that! Boy, you find out something new every day. Something new to be thankful for!
Today's count...fun at a gas station, excellent dinner, no kids! Yep, it is Coconut Friday a day early for sure!
Wednesday, October 6, 2010
Taking a little "Oprah Breathing Space" today as I am not especially in the mood to blog. And don't tell me that this image doesn't do as much, if not more, than my usual ramblings do, to ease your mind. After all, as I am reminded by a dear friend, and the Dalai Lama as well...
Sometimes one creates a dynamic impression by saying
something, and sometimes one creates as significant an impression by
remaining silent.
~Dalai Lama
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
I have felt a little heavy lately. Not weight wise. That has been pretty stable for a while, thankfully, but heavy in thought. I have been SO busy starting a new year at work, so mindful of making the changes and adaptation to be successful at a new grade level. Then there has been all the media lately about teaching, and my recent firing off about tenure. It may have come out on Sunday, but the thoughts have been rolling around in my head for a while.
Tonight, it was such fun just to have some mindless banter with some friends on Facebook...about life, school, our kids, pets, wine, and a new Pink song, "Raise Your Glass," of all titles!
Lines like...
"WHY SO SERIOUS?"
"What part of party don't you understand?"
"So raise your glass if you are wrong, in all the right ways!"
"Oh shit...my glass is empty. That SUCKS!"
and perhaps my favorite...
"So if you're too school for cool"
Yeah, somedays I get too school for cool...too wrapped up in school, work, life, to relax and be good to ME. So tonight, no more thinking, no more papers being graded, no more dishes to wash, and the kids can pack their own lunches. Couch, warm blanket, here I come! And I'd raise a glass too, Pink, but I'm so tired I am pretty sure I'd fall asleep instantly! Maybe tomorrow!
Monday, October 4, 2010
I was so ON my Union/Tenure soapbox last night, that you were never even let in on "Pumpkin Fest 2010," which was going on, in our humble abode yesterday, as well.
Each and every year, we wait until October to make a family favorite recipe..."Pasta with Pumpkin and Sausage." This year, the accompaniment included a showdown between Post Road Pumpkin Ale and Dogfish Head Punkin' Ale...both were amazing incidently. We wrapped up with pumpkin pie (storebought...lame, I know) and Devin's homemade whipped cream. If you try one new recipe this season, have it be this one. It is AMAZINGLY good. Follow the recipe to the T...it is perfect as it is, OR go a little heavier on the cinnamon. And be sure you use 100% pumpkin, not pie filling!
Pasta with Pumpkin and Sausage
Recipe courtesy Rachael Ray
Prep Time:10 minInactive Prep Time:--Cook Time:15 min
Level:
Easy
Serves:
4 servings
Ingredients
1 tablespoon extra-virgin olive oil, plus 1 tablespoon
1 pound bulk sweet Italian sausage
4 cloves garlic, cracked and chopped
1 medium onion, finely chopped
1 bay leaf, fresh or dried
4 to 6 sprigs sage leaves, cut into chiffonade, about 2 tablespoons
1 cup dry white wine
1 cup chicken stock, canned or paper container
1 cup canned pumpkin
1/2 cup (3 turns around the pan) heavy cream
1/8 teaspoon ground cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg, ground or freshly grated
Coarse salt and black pepper
1 pound penne rigate, cooked to al dente
Romano or Parmigiano, for grating
Pumpernickel or whole grain bread, as an accompaniment
Directions
Spinach Salad with Apple and Red Onion, as an accompaniment, recipe follows
Heat a large, deep nonstick skillet over medium high heat. Add 1 tablespoon of olive oil to the pan and brown the sausage in it. Transfer sausage to paper towel lined plate. Drain fat from skillet and return pan to the stove. Add the remaining tablespoon oil, and then the garlic and onion. Saute 3 to 5 minutes until the onions are tender.
Add bay leaf, sage, and wine to the pan. Reduce wine by half, about 2 minutes. Add stock and pumpkin and stir to combine, stirring sauce until it comes to a bubble. Return sausage to pan, reduce heat, and stir in cream. Season the sauce with the cinnamon and nutmeg, and salt and pepper, to taste. Simmer mixture 5 to 10 minutes to thicken sauce.
Return drained pasta to the pot you cooked it in. Remove the bay leaf from sauce and pour the sausage pumpkin sauce over pasta. Combine sauce and pasta and toss over low heat for 1 minute. Garnish the pasta with lots of shaved cheese and sage leaves.
Serve pumpkin sausage pasta with pumpernickel or whole grain bread and Spinach Salad with Apple and Red Onion.
Sunday, October 3, 2010
My Sunday Gratitude, today, goes out to AFT President Randi Weingarten, who appeared on CBS Sunday Morning today, and began the task that all teachers should be mindful of right now; teaching the nation about tenure.
I have been noticeably silent about teaching on my blog, even though it is my profession of 17 years. That is mostly because this blog is really an escape from the day to day, for me. It is a place to express the other parts of myself, and it has allowed me to grow as a person and as a writer. I would argue that anything that enriches one as a person naturally translates into better teaching, but, conversely, this blog could be something that could lead to me being dismissed from my teaching job if I did not have tenure.
Now I am not on here doing elicit things, but I do express views. I do express frustrations. I mention books and movies that are important to me, as a person and as a teacher, but could be unpopular or controversial to some. Goodness knows I, at times, mention that I enjoy wine. I am originally from the Finger Lakes, after all. In a world without tenure, if a community member, or board member, or an administrator, suddenly started reading my blog, which is public after all, and decided that they just didn't like those aspects of me as a person, if they didn't like my habits, if they didn't like my politics, or my family, if they didn't like my writing style for that matter, I could be fired.
Tenure is a part of our profession and it exists for many reasons. It protects teachers' academic freedom, and being married to a biology teacher who navigates the waters of evolution, intelligent design, and creationism each and every year, I know full well why we need that. It deters arbitrary firing, which no one, in any profession deserves. Due process is simply a fancy way of saying fair, documented, legal procedures of dismissal. Tenure is not a "job for life" as many might argue, and it is only awarded after a probationary period of three, sometimes four years. And, for the record, tenure is awarded to a teacher by administration and Boards of Education, not by the union that is, so often these days, being portrayed as "the bad guy" of education.
Tenure is something that exists for reasons. It was a long and hard fight by our predecessors to get us the protections that tenure ensures, and it is something teachers should take seriously, and be proud of. At the same time, we should teach others why it is there, and, similarly, through our good teaching, show why we deserve it.
Are there problems in education today? Yes, there are, just as there are problems in Washington politics, on Wall Street, in the myriad industries that are taking their business out of our country, and in each and every small town that is struggling to stay afloat in America. In particular in a bad economy, where jobs are precious, no one, in any profession, wants to work with bad colleagues. I can't speak to how to fix every profession, but I can speak to teaching. Teaching is highly collaborative in nature, and when we see fellow teachers struggling, we should offer help. We should mentor each other. Principals should play their part as the leaders, facilitating advancement and assisting in the continuation of the education that is forever needed by those they lead. They should, at all times, be very much present, monitoring what is happening in classrooms, each and every day. Administrators, Parents, and Boards of Education, in tandem with teachers, should be seeking to, at all times,support teachers, and students, in the ways that will produce the best results, in every aspect of their growth as human beings. Evaluation, for teachers as well as students, should be based not on singular high stakes tests, but on multiple measures, and should be ongoing, to spur growth throughout a teacher's, and for that matter, a student's, career.
Unions, and more specifically tenure, do not stand in the way of any of those things. Unions want good working conditions for their members and for the students their members strive to serve, in the best ways they possibly can. They want better pay, and fair agreements for said workplaces, knowing that happy workers, workers who's basic needs are met, produce more and better product. And our product, after all, is a very important one...human beings. Tenure, in fact, can support what is needed in education. It can make a teacher feel safe enough to take a risk, to try something new, to INNOVATE. And innovation, above all, is what we need in education right now. We need to stop criticizing and pointing fingers and talking about what might be broken, and instead build up, collaborate, and take action for a new generation of teachers, and students. We are all learners, throughout this long life, after all.
In short, and frankly, it is TIME for us ALL to TEACH. Thank you, today, for beginning to teach America about tenure, Randi Weingarten.
Saturday, October 2, 2010
"Saturday's Randomness"
Today was a low motivation day, but once I just gave up, and curled up under the, affectionately called, Cymbalta blanket to watch not one, but TWO movies, with some snacks and a couple of glasses of wine, it was much better. Can't recall the last time I just checked out like that. It was a wonderful treat. And as much as it was a beautiful day outside, I think I enjoyed it just as much from the great indoors.
It was also nice to have a yummy dinner, completely planned, cooked and cleaned up by the rest of the family whist I was "unavailable," per say.
Gwynn even accomodated my needs, and allowed a 45 minute phone call with Sue when I was SUPPOSED to be watching "Wizards of Waverly Place" with her. DVR is a wonderful thing. I got to talk, AND we ended up getting to watch the full hour with NO commercials! Yeah!
After all this good, I am a little worried for Sunday...better start thinking of my plan now!
Friday, October 1, 2010
"Coconut Friday!"
And another week passes us by, this one's end marked by Margaritas and Mexican at Azteca with my hubby and son, whilst Gwynn partied up with her besties at a birthday party. It surely was a good end, now on to the beginning of a wonderful weekend!
I can hardly believe that Columbus Day weekend is next as well.
You all know what will be here before we know it? Christmas! Sorry to strike with that fearful statement, but it is true. Was at Walmart with G yesterday, picking up a birthday gift for Jacque, and pulled a "throw it in the cart" with the new Selena Gomez (of Disney Channel...Wizards of Waverly Place...LOVE that show!) CD. On the way home, rocking out, it occurred to me that I COULD have said to her "Well put it on your Christmas list..." BUT NO! I caved!
And so we sing along...
"Christmas is coming, mom is already broke..." Sigh...well, I guess it will be back to work on Monday, eh?!
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